Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.

In order to use Xarray with alternative array types like cupy the user needs to be able to specify the underlying array type without digging into internals.

Right now I'm doing something like this.

```python import xarray as xr import cupy as cp

ds = xr.tutorial.load_dataset("air_temperature") ds.air.data = cp.asarray(ds.air.data) ```

However this will become burdensome when there are many data arrays and feels brittle and prone to errors.

As I see it a conversion could instead be done in a couple of places; on load, or as a utility method.

Currently Xarray supports NumPy and Dask array well. Numpy is the defrault and the way you specify whether a Dask array should be used is to give the chunks kwargs to an open_ function or by calling .chunk() on a DataSet or DataArray.

Side note: There are a few places where the Dask array API bleeds into Xarray in order to have compatibility, the chunk kwarg/method is one, the .compute() method is another. I'm hesitant to do this for other array types, however surfacing the cupy.ndarray.get method could feel natural for cupy users. But for now I think it would be best to take Dask as a special case and try and be generic for everything else.

Describe the solution you'd like

For other array types I would like to propose the addition of an asarray kwarg for the open_ methods and an .asarray() method on DataSet and DataArray. This should take either the array type cupy.ndarray, the asarray method cp.asarray, or preferably either.

This would result in something like the following.

```python import xarray as xr import cupy as cp

ds = xr.open_mfdataset("/path/to/files/*.nc", asarray=cp.ndarray)

or

ds = xr.open_mfdataset("/path/to/files/*.nc") gds = ds.asarray(cp.ndarray) ```

These operations would convert all data arrays to cupy arrays. For the case that ds is backed by Dask arrays it would use map_blocks to cast each block to the appropriate array type.

It is still unclear what to do about index variables, which are currently of type pandas.Index. For cupy it may be more appropriate to use a cudf.Index instead to ensure both are on the GPU. However this would add a dependency on cudf and potentially increase complexity here.

Describe alternatives you've considered

Instead of an asarray kwarg/method something like to_cupy/from_cupy could be done. However I feel this makes less sense because the object type is not changing, just that of the underlying data structure.

Another option would be to go more high level with it. For example a gpu kwarg and to_gpu/from_gpu method could be added in the same way. This would abstract things even further and give users a choice about hardware rather than software. This would also be a fine solution but I think it may special case too much and a more generic solution would be better.

Additional context Related to #4212.

I'm keen to start implementing this. But would like some discussion/feedback before I dive in here.